Being Inconsistent - The Different Habit
Posted: Friday, October 01, 2010
by HyunSoung Kim
hyunsoung's blog about life as a foreigner
Consistency and inconsistency are special words that must always be present in minds because they can define if we will go to the finish line or fail without even trying. How many times did you read that the things you don't see, feel, pressure and plan can be with the same value with the things that are visible to our outside and inside? I am sure it was hyperbolic, with positive numbers. But on the other hand i am also sure that sometimes it is harder to manage the things we see...
No matter how much we think something in our closeness is unique, there is 99% someone else feeling or doing it. I believe that you know that sometimes it is better not to write any goals nor say them aloud in order to really make it happen. Well, lets go back to the big point...
Habits are not being created only by our efficiency but also with our inefficiency, and the habit created by the inefficiency is usually just like a invisible fire burning in a secret forest, it will be hard to stop the fire once recognized that something is holding us down.
If we once step of the road we planned, the next time when we want to take the road it will be harder because of the first time we failed, because of the first time when we were taken by our short term desires. Failing to follow our decisions once, twice and third time the volcano that was expanding in the inside of us will break out so that we see what we have created, which can be nearly inevitable if we don't take the stand next time.
Don't let one broke off volcano put off the smile that should always be present and ready, and don't confuse your true self, your personality with habits, i will quote @member195814 , an author in SearchWarp who told me the difference between the personality and habits "One's personality does not change. Life experiences can cause you to change how you react to things, but your basic personality remains hidden in the body/mind, waiting to be affected in a way it can show itself again. Personality is who you are; your identity. Habits, on the other hand, can certainly be changed. Habits are a learned behavior and can be modified with thought and effort. Because of this, we tend to confuse habits with identity"
Habits are hands that build the road that drives us higher or lower in the life, control the creation of unwanted habits and always go forward.
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Top-level comments on this article: (6 total)You are one smart man.Thank you Dixie, you are very kind.
I agree that being consistent is key to reaching any goal. Habits are good for some things but rarely for moving ahead. That takes a conscious drive instead. I have enjoyed this article.Thank you Grace for agreeing, i am glad you enjoyed it!
Good article HyunSoung, thanks for sharingDavid, thanks for visiting and commenting!
It is interesting talk! I am very glad to see your trial and make sense!!! Go ahead our smart young gentleman!!!!!!!!!!!
Interesting article HyunSoung. I think that habits are created from insecurity, and that when we give ourselves what we need so that we feel more secure within ourselves, we become restless with the habits, because they actually restrict us. They're still hard to change, though.Nicely said Jennifer! Thank you for reading!
Thanks for the encouraging challenge!Thank you Marijo for visiting :)
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