HyunSoung Kim

Our Fathers - The Torch Helping us Glow



Posted: Wednesday, June 15, 2011

by HyunSoung Kim
hyunsoung's blog about life as a foreigner

Only eighteen, but how many times did I realize again and again that our fathers are living for us, not just for the case of the word legacy, but for a more pure level.

Waking up in early times, working untill late hours, for the sake of our hapiness... are we that precious? do we deserve it?

Right now I was thinking about times when other people told me how lucky I was, having such a hard working and carring father, and I really feel sorry and unfair about the present situation in the world, where everyone should have a loving father who shows his love through deeds or words, but not hide it in midst of his heart making love itself confused.

Humans in itself are made of love itself and there is no denying it, we couldn't breathe, watch, hear, feel or do anything without it. And showing love is a part of our lives, our duty and our reason, and our fathers are doing a pretty good job.

I don't like writing real examples but I am sure there are some who want to read them. Every time someone in the house coughs, he brings a scarf and asks if we want tea, every hour or two he asks if we are hungry if we want to eat, every time my younger brother and surely me and my brother asked him to play with us, he would play with us outside even though he was exhausted, he would cook while mom was sick, care for her and us, though this may be just a personality, but we have never got punished for bad things, he always would teach the lesson with words, with soft words.

Even though we were not in really high financial position, he introduced us to a new high school, while we didn't know how expensive it was, we couldn't see it in him, it was just a brighter future for us in him.

Still today he works hard in paying off the high school we finished one year ago and is working now for the university now, one time, he said that when my young brother, who is the youngest finishes university that he will stop working, that was when I figured that he was working for us, while we weren't even studying that hard.

I figured, we as children hold the key to our fathers, parents happiness, and the brighter our lifes are, the brighter their smile will be. Thank you Father.
HyunSoung Kim is just an other ordinary person in this world who believes that thinking outside of the box is not enough, but that we should think further than that, the picture we get can be simpler than we ever imagined, in the end, all truths are simple.

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Father's Day 2011
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» left by Christofer French
341 days 23 hours ago.
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As a young father, I was fearful of the financial obligation I had taken on by having 4 kids. Your article describes the work that fathers have to do. It is one of the ways that they express their love, even though sometimes they aren't good at the "expressions". The "soft words" is good for a father to use. Good article.
» left by HyunSoung Kim 341 days 9 hours ago.
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Oh here is also 4 kids, and another problem was that me and my older brother were just with a year difference, so the burden was bigger :), i feel happy for you putting the financial obligations on side, 4 kids, thats a lot of love, i am sure there are a lot of problems and quarrels but once overcomed there will be more and more happiness :). Yeah i agree, also my father was not so good with expressions, but as we overcomed the problems, he changed. Thank you for commenting Christofer, see you around.
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